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";s:4:"text";s:22927:"Now that his horrible step-father is dead, my husband has all those awful weeds coming up fom all the dysfuntion. Do you think your husband is acting the way he is the signs a man is cheating not because hes cheating but because he feels emotionally distant from you? If your husband really is cheating on you and lying about it, it is better to leave him. I will stop for now. Nobody shold deal with anxiety issues alone. Be very observant .he will bust himself out eventually. (you despicable piece of trash site). Youve just found out that your husband is cheating on you. Just saw a motivational video that said to always stay in the present. He's not going to change his character-assassinating . A couple of months ago he decided that he wanted to go on a diet and shave his gotee. Not sure what to do Been with my fianc for 4 years, we have an amazing little boy together. I have a cheating husband, we are separated and getting a divorce. The second time I found out (a month later) he was in Iraq. I am still in shock as we never even had a fight. Husbands arent appreciated at home, so they cheat. kf The reality is God want you to confront a cheating husband in a way that is biblical. Hi, I am at a loss for words. The blaming me part, denying everything until you find out. I mean who goes on there honeymoon and leaves his new wife in bed well your down at the bar getting drunk with another woman and going for a walk on the beach. And he is dismissive lately of me, and impatient. I dont get it. he said no that is why we are going out this side door. Yes I am one of those women who fell for his BS, hook, line and sinker. I always ask him to take a test..but the answer will be no. I tend to strategically check texts and have found out a lot of painful truth just 2 days ago. Let him see that youve chosen to be above him and treatment of you. When i got back i felt something was wrong, like he had been cheating. Sorry if my ealier statement about husbands lying and cheat seemed perhaps aggresive. I think there must be something more going on, than just your husband having a nightmare. All the proof was on his credit card from work. He excepted. He right away directs anger to me for even mentioning it. Youre at the end of your rope, it doesnt seem like he does anything for you or your marriageI dont know what I can do to help you. Spying, calling around, and interrogating their partners, women invest their energy in a senseless hunt to prove what is already obvious: the relationship is seriously broken. They won't take responsibility for their actions because it makes them feel as though they are out of control and vulnerable. He then took it from 2d to 3d visiting many strip clubs and admitting to paying for more than 20 naked lap dances. He takes care of her by paying her rent and etc. In a few days from that first prayer, something kept gently nudging me one night check his phone. I even saw a video chat picture of them together chatting. He will have them in my face but pretend there friends and later because of there actions toward me I realize hes cheating with her. In the meantimepay attention, do some research/ checking uppop into his work to take lunch to him or pop in just to say you missed him, theres all kind of spywear for phones and computers nowuse it. Any woman who knows her husband has cheated on her more than one time AND stays with him deserves what she gets. What prompted you to search the internet for articles about husbands cheating? While he was reserving the room, the womans mom called and said she was going to come to our city and spend the night with her daughter because she didnt trust my husband when he said that he was not going to spend the night with her daughter. He used to be home by 420p when he gets off work at 3pm and now hes coming home closer to 7pm. When i asked if anything happened with this girl he said no and that he is very happily married to me. You never really stated just how you feel though so I cannot be sure. I hope it helps, and welcome your thoughts! At least he told you the truth about the strip bar. It seems like he texting someone n messages deleted. Help for marriage problems, for couples who are recently or forever married. It pains me to know that he is in search of women to have sex with. She was just someone he got on with. If youre afraid hel lie to you about it.. you can catch him in the act. Im not doing anything, but wonder if he is again. Again she said no because she knew we were still together. I do not know if he regrets that decision (although I personally think he does at some level). She had a problem with this becuase where ever we went, there were people that knew me, so i decided to take her out of town where this would hopefully not be a problem. I wanted to believe, because i LOVE this man. Even if you delete it from the trash. It was like he was living to seperate lives. ), and he is leading her on. I normally trust him. I still feel like hes cheating on me. I feel for you so much. And had a sweet little one together. I asked him if he would ever do anything to ruin our family and he looked at me and said no of course not. I left it at that knowing that if I were to continue trying to get something out of him it would only make things worse. Lately ive felt like he hasnt done anything tht he is just talking to these girls but i dont want to let my self be luled into false sense of security. We even got in to a fight about weed and alchol i dont have a problem with either one i smoke weed but i do not do any other drugs he asked me to stop because he doesnt like it. Perhaps youre a stay-at-home mom with the children, or maybe you also have a career. He said hes faithful to me. We may earn a small commission on purchases made through our links. That is the only way to find a solution. If the women told you that their relationship was more, I would consider that a red flag. Finally I entered another relationship big surprise whammy !!! Doesnt offer a ride to a nearby urgent care to have it checked out. Well we were on our honeymoon my husband said to me only as this girl was walking towards us at the pool o by the way that girl there i went to the bar last night and had some drinks with her and went for a walk on the beach well you were sleeping. are his privates, your private property? This lady has broke a married mans home with 3 children now and shes about to have mine again Ive talk to his ex wife about it and she said they tried things to make her think she was crazy like put insects in her bed and clothes when things bite her he would say shes crazy or take and hide her things and said she misplaced them, now Im going thru the same thing and want him out but he want leave he lies to me about having anything to do with her but I know he does. And what i found; all the naked pictures of her in his email, his IM on fb with more naked pictures of her in my house, pictures at her house saying if her family found out she is done. But its summer again, and he has lots of time on his hands. i went out and found him standing and he said is OOOk it true you are at your fatherhouse he said i thought you were lying,then off he drove back. My life has been him and my two daughters. I dont know what else to do!!!! Hi Samantha, Im really sorry to hear what you have gone through. So when he went to the strip club 3 weeks after I delivered, I asked him did he have fun. It doesnt matter if he was cheating or not, what matters is that he was making you feel like he was cheating. He is always helpful when people need it, no questions asked, just does because they need help. He gets mad if I bring her up, still denies it, and wont discuss it period. I want to stay with him, but am afraid he did sleep with this woman. Youre only 10, and this is way too big and ugly for you to have to face! Hire a private investigator. My husband and i have been together for 6 or 7 years now and married for 3 years. I need help! When she had enough, she just kicked him to the curb. He said he wanted to reconcile and I told him I didnt know if that was possible . Plus, always remember, even if your marriage doesnt ultimately work out regardless, it was far from your fault and you shouldnt take your insecurities into a future relationship or marriage. None of you are crazy, nor do you deserve to be subjected to this horrible betrayalstop taking it as a way to measure your worth! Also - wrapping legs around leg of chair is a sign of restraint, of holding back, and not being honest. So you can move on and steer clear of losers like this. Anyways, today I returned his call and found out that he was on the phone when he answered the call, when i asked him if he was busy, he didnt answer me directly, spoke to me as if i was a guy and then he said ill call u in a minute or two. I used to think I was special to him and he would never cheat on me. I do go threw hos emails and txt when i can ive also caught him talking to some girl about how he really did love her and what they use to do in dressing rooms and stuff. I dont want to be the one to shatter your dream, but its best recognized sooner than later. He hardly ever touches me or becomes intimate with me even before we became pregnant. I catch him lying too much, almost all the time. He has an addict problem. April, your response to this woman was perfect! Mind you he is extremley greedy, and selfish which Im just getting to know this about him. It sounds like youve learned how to cope without living in a bad relationship, and youre much happier. I have to show every sign of happiness towards him or he will try to make me feel bad. Yet, had the nerve to tell me he was going to the firehouse to get homework done, because our daughter was being a pain in the butt throwing a temper tantrum and he needed to concentrate. If you have evidence that they cheated, they will usually blame their actions on someone else. I also found he had been searching craigslist for girls that were down for sex in an area that he was going to be in for a business trip. Most of the questions seem to be coming from women who are in marriages or long term committed relationshipswhat do you think about handling cheating in new relationships? I called him at work and asked is your friend with you at work because a text just went out. He says he loves me, needs me, wants me but things just arent working. I was reading these articles and I ran into your comment. I pray for strength and courage as you make decisions about your marriage. During these 2 years we were still fooling around. If he would just say that he was deeply sorry for being such a stupid idiot to not consider my feelings about the way he carried on always putting her first, it may ease my intense anger and distrust of him but he wont. That he wasnt happy etc. The problem is we get along great then out of nowhere he needs spacedoesnt need me around 24/7. i am so confused,what happens to me and my unborn child and how do i fight this fraustration cos i love him so much. Its all Ive got left. You have to take this journey and I pray along the way, you find the real Jennifer in all her glory, living life and loving life as it should be. Surprisingly, 48% say theyre missing an emotional connection at home, so they cheat on their wives. I told him I dont send those kind of things to my guy friends. She was upset by my snarky comment. I have tried so hard to forgive him. I finally had enough after he got her to call my father in law to basically say I was crazy and they werent doing anything. He says, if Im going to treat him like crap then hes not going to do anything for me. BUT when I try to step in your shoes and assess your risk, your risk is and you state that you risk losing his friendship. WELL, HE IS MARRIED. Spaces fill up quickly for this course. I have been with him for Two years. I am in a VERY similar situation: married for 1.5yrs, been together for 5. So i acted as if i was her. Very unclear! Trust me, what this dumbasses doing is just one little page in the entire book of your life. I just need your help to get a plan so that I can save money and be moved out by the end of this year. He wrote just hi to her. We have 3 children and one on the way. I dont like his job because he has accepted gifts from other women and is a server at an asian restaurant. She just looked at me and said nothing both times. when i finish the coursce i went back to my town he come to my flat telling me lot of stories which i did not believe him couse was not having trust on him. Take this quick quiz that looks at whether he actually likes you or not! He claims that they only had lunch and that if he ever did sleep with her or had taken their relationship to a physical level he would not continue our marriage. So bottom line, to me it looks like Mother Nature makes us that way. My husband and I have been married almost a year now. Im sorry but I dont agree with the age gap at all. Theresa, Sweetie, you are wasting your time. It kills me, it pains me.but i cant continue to wallow in this pain of waiting for the man i felll in love with 19 years ago to come back to me. Their texts began in December, it was now August, they were more and more each month, he called her when out of town before he called me, they texted every day as soon as they left work, he called her on the weekends etc. I will say a prayer for all of you.please get away from the ones you are with who are cheating on their spouses I PROMISE you there is someone out there for you who will treat you perfect! It bothered me that he did not mention this to me when we were introduced and I knew nothing of this woman the whole time we have been married. Those words dont appear on your phone for no apparent reason. I recently went to the dr for an infection and I was possatice for chlamydia. Then I found out he had also been secretly spending time and contacting a young couple half his age. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years and we just had a baby girl dec 2012. i recenlty found conversations of him talking to other girls on facebook, one being my so called best friend. hi, This is rani my issue is that my husband seems like cheating me due to various reason.because i found some changes in him like coming late to home, avoiding me coming to his office , deleting his phone history but after asking abt tat he was managing to keep few entries .showing difference in bed,bluffing , and suddenly showing huge affection towards me somtimes mentioning three instead of two. Ive been the other man numerous times. what can i do to find out if its true or it might be just a rumour. Before you learn how to confront a cheater, prepare yourself for the obvious: The majority of cheating spouses will deny-deny-deny cheating until they are blue in the face. Also last year I found another conversation with another one of his co workers that he was trying to hangout with ( a girl) and was telling her that he really wants to hangout and he would lie to me and say he is at work or working out. (deleted texts between them, etc). NOT his typical behavior so now it has me wondering. Having sex blindly with anyone who will agree is extremely dangerous, for you too! I went through with it anyway. I know youve already shot this idea down, but thats the whole point of this article! Do a mans friends have anything to do with his willingness to cheat? I am unhappy to this day and cant get over what happened and will never trust him again. He offers his arm to me and escorts me, pointing out hazards (be careful) that could snag my heels. Yes the same to what I faced. The hardest part for me right now is letting it go. Blah blah blah. If course, she wouldnt . Why I still love him I dont know, but I am at a loss. I decided to forgive him and he decided to deactivate his Facebook. I pray you find strength, wisdom and peace. It started as normal as can be. My personal opinion is you need to come out of the place of mistrust. He even told me that he thought she was actually pregnant unless I wouldnt have known. I doubt he believes me because he said it was still recording but he did not know how to turn it off. If he can't be honest nor consider your well being then you have o act. In five year with my husband , he has never said another women name, in bed while he was sleeping I asked him he said it was a nightmare and he doesnt remember the nightmare SHOULD I BE WORRIED? We never did get to do it. Over time, it will help you work through your feelings and help you decide what your next steps should be. Since this has happened, there has not been a day that I dont talk about it with him. I then went into history and found that it was all deleted (which i know my computer saves, Ive found sites from there before) I bbmed my husband and told him that I found a live porn chat online, whats up? Writing to women who are victims of cheaters is like asking dog lovers if you can use one dog for a violent scene in a movie and try to justify why you are asking the question to dog lovers. As much as we woukd like to give back what we got, some of us just cant . The study involved 506 men and 412 women who reported being in monogamous sexual relationships lasting from three months to 43 years. Dont HATE the other woman/womenhes your husband who made vows to you..the other women didnt make vows to you. I would happily have gone to the justice of the peace as we were both 19 at the time. The history has probably been cleared again. I was right but he said he needed to get away from everything. Not fighting doesnt mean you have a healthy marriage. He is a marine and we are living overseas right now with our two kids. I do not know. Grrr. I feel that my husband wants to be single again and he may have a girlfriend. I thought I could trust her. I think you know as well as I do that I cant tell you if your boyfriend is cheating on you! That is the decision you must make. And it happened that very night, he was out working late, not even coming home for dinner. In nov. He said he had worked with this girl many years ago and they were friends then. If he wasnt having an affair before you could just be driving him to one. I think he has a lot of potential to be a great and stable partner. They are the ones that have to hear all the fights.. I tell him what Id like, get it for about 2 weeks and then nothing from him until I nag at him or question him on why he isnt present in making this work. But i found out through a friend that they did see eachother, while i was out of town. I wish I would have realized that he was an insecure, selfish, narcissist before I had invested all of this time and made the prospect of leaving so complicated. Honestly, it does not feel natural. why he deleted some and not all? Then I asked him why he went (when before when he went, acted as if he was soooo bored, he even called me from his cell). I had to go and start a therapy as I was losing interest in food and life in general . The man is trying like Hell to cheat on you. Like me, Im certain, you too never imagined something like this would ever happen to youLets try our best to be strong for ourselves, as well as one another. You need to understand that you deserve better and cut your losses before you are 30 years, 3 kids and 3 grandkids in. I went through his phone bill and found 2 numbers that he texted so often it was not funny. I cant be vulnerable with this man. I apologize if I have offended any of you. I cant tell you if you should leave him, or if hes cheating. Any advice? He will buy a new fragrance or go shopping for new clothes. I see the way he looks at me (which is awesome), and I know I take his breath away. May you find the right person or people to support you as you journey forward. Just, The Wife. I saw chat between him and this girl (from the same last duty station country), they try to meet up several times. I have been put on prozac and seeing a consuller regularly I do have many bad days which cause me to get very isolated and not be there for my kids I want my life back ..but I want it to be better than before..I really hope time heals. I wrote another article on how to tell if your husband is lying, with different tips to think about: Is Your Boyfriend Telling Lies? Then 4 days ago i received our cell phone bill in the mail and we had been charged overage charges due to too many text messages. He went to work for an independant guy and didnt come home for 4 months. My boyfriend lied to me. It helps to know your husband well. I completely trusted him. My gut feeling has never lied or been un true in the past I believe in the 15 years there has been at least 5 please help Im very desperate to have closer Ive never stayed with a cheater but hes slick I could never catch him. So it took me days to build his trust and get him to talk about it eventhough I was burning with anger and rage. Im not always rite and I know that.BUT THIS I DO NOT DESERVE!! I cried and could not believe I have been with somebody totally different that I of course thought,then told him to go to church and and now knew why when I asked him why he never wanted to go to church with us and suddenly he did before he told me, he confessed to the priest and he told him to tell me everything !! Your honesty will help other wives deal with their husbands lying and cheating. I dont even like saying that because I think its sneaky and deceptive, but women have found out about affairs that way. I pray that God gives you the strength that you need to succeed in this situation. Stay strong!! He cheated many times on his previous women while in relationships. Why do you need to know that hes with her before you separate? The wife of one of his friends wont tell me the truth about anything that happens, and neither will any of the guys. Last year in June along with the cheating. Asked him to give her up, he would not. I had this strange feeling or question in my head because they were still friendly and their last break up somehow , to me, seemed to be left open ended. We havent been able to reconnect emotionally very well in the past 3 years. A liar, cheater and thief. Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot. If I were you, I would follow my gut instincts. This is a lot of things he has done but emotionally in other ways he can be a very good man. The only reason I found out was because I accidentally stumbled across the messages. It sounds like your marriage has been filled with emotional upheavals, suspicions, disruptions, and lack of communication. Driver calls this the belly button rule.When were telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. 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